Never talk bad about his ex in front of the kids.

Never talk bad about his ex in front of the kids. If she is a terrible person, or a bad mother the kids will figure it out on their own as they grow older. If you try to tell them she is, they will only despise you. Encourage your husband to do the same. If she is talking poorly about you or your husband to or in front of the kids, you can ask her to stop. If she doesn’t, ignore it. Be the bigger people. The kids will appreciate you for it more when they are older. **This does not apply if the biological parent is causing physical or psychological harm to a child. If Harm is being done or if a crime is committed please seek legal advice or call your local child services department.